可选indexIf included, postgres will apply the index predicate to a conflict target (partial index)
可选overwrite可选returningAllows selecting custom RETURNING / OUTPUT clause. Works only on drivers with returning support.
可选skipIf true, postgres will skip the update if no values would be changed (reduces writes)
可选upsertDefine the type of upsert to use (currently, CockroachDB only).
If none provided, it will use the default for the database (first one in the list)
Special options passed to Repository#upsert